Showing posts with label holiday. Show all posts
Showing posts with label holiday. Show all posts

Friday, December 23, 2011

A Merry Christmas Carol

I’ve been reading The Annotated Christmas Carol, the Charles Dickens classic with an introduction and notes by Michael Patrick Hearn. Yes, I’m actually reading something academic without the need of pictures and word bubbles. This is an impressively researched volume of work with the introduction itself nearly twice as long as the original text. This was actually a gift to me from last Christmas, but I’ve been saving it to read prior to this holiday.

I’ve always loved A Christmas Carol, and the countless interpretations and performances I’ve seen. I remember the George C. Scott television movie as being somewhat big event in our household when it was on. One of those rare occasions where we were allowed to stay up late to watch it. There have been all sorts of character adaptions from Mickey Mouse to the Muppets. There was even this strange Mr. Magoo version I have memories of. The Alastair Sim version is sitting on my DVR as I write this. I’ve seen many staged versions, my favorite being the one done here in Cincinnati at Playhouse in the Park. Oddly enough, I’d never committed to reading it before.

The book itself was a fast read, deceptively simple in message yet so complex in theme. I was more taken by the introduction and notes that I continue to read through. What I find striking is just how things haven’t changed much since Dickens was inspired to write this. There was a great financial instability at the time. Profit was largely gained at the expense of others. There were the haves and the have-nots. There was a great deal of concern that the true traditional meanings of Christmas were being lost.

Dickens grew up in poverty, which was a reoccurring theme in his works. His was a classic case of never forgetting where he came from. His success placed him among those who he felt did not do enough to care for their fellow man. I’ve struggled this holiday with my lack of generosity. I know there are so many in need, but yet I so distrust the many who take advantage of the generosity of others. For every magical story there is a negative tale of corruption. For every K-Mart layaway paid of by an anonymous donor, there is a person stealing church funds. I’ve crafted my own ways of giving to others, and I have to trust that these are the things that keep my chain from getting ponderous.

The top story of the year is the great divide between the top 1% and the rest of us. Most will agree that want and ignorance has caused great financial instability around the world. Scrooge and Marley spent their lives focused on financial gain, to the point that neither had anything else to share it with. I do find it strange that Scrooge did nothing with his wealth, seemingly only driven to keep it from others. Much like the politicians that are currently making things worse for us, Scrooge was out of touch with the struggle of the common man. Nearly 170 years later and we have not the redemption that Scrooge found. I feel like the Ghost of Christmas Present stands among us warning us of a bleak future that will remain unaltered without efforts to change.

I know of many Bob Cratchits. Decent men of personal sacrifice to remain providers for their families. Not is not the time to quarrel with inconveniences of job satisfaction. The fear of “losing my situation” haunts me even greater now that I have dependants. There is nothing I want more in life than to be able to provide a Merry Christmas for my child every year.

I fully embrace the spirit of Christmas that Dickens celebrates. I always have. I understand the reason for the season, but one doesn’t have to fully embrace religion in order to properly celebrate the day. Why can’t one evaluate their humanity if but once a year? When else would one take the time to do so? One glance at Facebook paints a picture of how people feel about the holidays. Many embrace it, others are righteous, and some dread it. Each passing year I get more reflective around the holidays, and I find that valuable. The perspective that age brings lets you analyze Christmas past. The security of the moment lets you appreciate Christmas present. The responsibility is yours to take what you’ve learned to guarantee a merry Christmas future. To me, Christmas is family. You pass along Christmas spirit from generation to generation. This was Dickens primary concern, and the reason he wanted to write this story. He wanted to craft something that could be shared in celebration of traditions he felt were being lost. Christmas was passed along to me by my parents, and I look forward to passing along what they shared with me. I think that is what I’m most excited about this Christmas, and I fully intend to make rather merry on this day.

My Christmas blessing to you is to find clarity of spirit. It is never too late to better your place in the world. Find resolution in your regrets. Enrich the life of someone else. Be generous, not just monetarily. Be better than your word.

God bless you... yes... everyone of you.

Wednesday, December 8, 2010

In Defense of My Christmas Tree

Nothing seems to generate stronger opinions than that of how to celebrate Christmas correctly. Some think people put up decorations too early, others get their shopping done in September, some want more Christ in Christmas, and there are those who don’t want anything to do with it at all. ‘Tis the season of “to each his own” I guess. One of my favorite symbols of my celebration is one that always seems to illicit opinion from folks… my Christmas tree.

Now forget the fact that I’d keep the thing up year round if I could. Never mind that it is usually up from mid-November to mid-January. Don’t let it bother you that it is not a real tree. These aren’t the issues.

The problems people have with my tree seem to stem from the choice of decoration. I’ll be the first to admit that the greater half of the tree has nothing to do with the common adornments of the season. For example, my ex-wife hated my ornaments so much that she made me hang them on the back of the tree facing the wall. She’d be practically apologetic to people that viewed our tree, fearful of their judgment. Actually this is an analogy for our entire marriage.

Actually, the first impression you have of my tree should be positive. If I do say so, it is strikingly beautiful. Centered in our great room, it is visible from all angles of the house. The silver and bronze metallic balls and trim add extra shine to the glowing white lights. Bronze dusted branches extend from the top forming a sparkling crown around the top of the tree.

Once you approach the tree, however, you start to pick out things that may be out of place. Is that Billy Dee Williams? Why is there an Ecto-1? Does one really need two different Christmas Story Leg Lamps? Shouldn’t Princess Leia have some clothes on? There is no star atop the tree, but there seems to be a Death Star. Is the Grinch holding meat? How many of these ornaments are armed? It is indeed and odd assortment of motley pop culture characters. I know the wise men did not bring gifts of lightsabers, Bumbles, and Roast Beast, but these are featured icons nonetheless. Santa shouts out the ornaments calling them by name: “Now Darth Vader! Now Tigger! Now Swedish Chef and Captain Jack Sparrow; On Greedo! On Ralphie! On Harry Potter and Hermey!

I’ve gone ahead and informally worked out some percentages of the various groupings of ornaments represented. I’m actually a little surprised, as I thought the Star Wars percentage would be higher.

Star Wars: 43%
Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer: 12%
Anne-Marie (birds, cats, and photo ornaments): 12%
Santas and Snowmen: 6%
Muppets: 5%
Disney: 5%
A Christmas Story: 5%
Ohio State Football: 4%
Indiana Jones: 3%
Other Various Pop Culture: 5%


What people fail to realize is that this tree is every bit of what Christmas is to me. Every trinket tells a tale. They are reminders of the Ghosts of Christmas Past, Present, and Future. Give or take a few years, there hasn’t been a Christmas where something branded Star Wars hasn’t been gifted. I remember distinctly the one Christmas Eve I couldn’t sleep because I was too charged up with excitement to get a Jabba the Hutt playset. I can’t imagine a Christmas spent without watching Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer. I’ve always found that herky-jerky bit of animation magical. I’ve had many beloved Muppet gifts other the years, including my first Animal puppet when I was 8 or 9 years old. A Christmas Story was a family favorite from the time it hit the theaters. It has a special place in the hearts of Cleveland residents because parts of the film where shot there. It is always on our television for some part of the annual 24-hour marathon on TBS. The day after Christmas was always a day to wear our new Ohio State apparel to my Mother’s family. College football was always a dominant conversion among my cousins and uncles.

I should really own stock in Hallmark, because they always manage to entice me to spread much of my holiday cheer (er… cash) their way every year. Whoever thought to add ornaments to their list of wares should be filthy rich and retired in some very non-seasonal island paradise.

Now that I’ve spent this entire story calling it my tree, I should mention it is every inch my family’s tree. The tree that stands in our living room is actually one of the first purchases my wife and I made together after only dating for a few weeks. She has come to adore what the tree means to me, and has fully embraced this as our single favorite house decoration. The ornaments I buy for her now aren’t necessarily because I think she’ll absolutely love them, rather they are things that remind me of her, and all the things we’ve shared together. It should also be noted that the first gift she ever bought me was an ornament. It was a small but meaningful gesture early in our relationship. That is exactly what my tree is, a display of meaningful pieces of life that illuminates my house for a few short weeks every year. Let your tree be unique to you.

Oh and the ornament Anne-Marie bought me was an Anakin Skywalker Starfighter from Star Wars Episode III – Revenge of the Sith. Of course.